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Healing ❤️‍🩹

So sup, i hope y'all are doing good. I haven't been well for few days, and it's been really difficult. We all keep acting like everything is fine, fine, and fine, but every week there's that one moment when we cry, lose it, and decide to pretend again. Trust me, though—while going through this process, you eventually become fine and really fine. I'm not saying that you should get used to something that isn't you or isn't good for you—because that's not right, and while it's sometimes necessary in life, please try to the last breath for being who you are and don't give up. the literal meaning of HEALING is "the process of making or becoming sound or healthy again." but healing is not that simple and that could be from anything healing from your break up, past traumas, broken friendship, grief or anything that makes your heart ache and you cant forget it. I have realized one thing that you only heal from things when you really accept them, just the way it is, and it hurts a lot but eventually you will be ready to let it go and then there would be just memories which are painful but they wont hurt. I thought that i'm feeling it more because unlike others i'm not getting used to it, and thats true. Time truly is the greatest healer, but you have to let go of things. Everyone is deserving of everything, so if someone makes you feel unworthy, just let them alone and put your attention on yourself. I get that there is a dilemma about whether it is better to pretend and be OK or to face it and feel fine. Either way, simply face it head-on and proceed courageously. Everyone pretends, tears, and is attempting to heal from things they don't talk about, so take inspiration from others and do the same. Life is so brief, and before we truly know what we want out of it, half of it has already passed. So, learn everything you think is cool, be everything you want to be, spend your time with people who realizes your worth, life to your fullest and while doing all of this you will truly heal from things, everything.

I wish best for everyone.

Thank you so much for reading this, i would like to suggest a song which is CARRY YOU by ruelle, fleurie, this song makes me feel a lot, i hope you like it.

XOXO❤️🫂

Comments

Anonymous said…
i have seen you crying and i know you have been at your worst since past few days, but i am so proud of you,you have managed yourself so well.Be the same charms, love u.
Anonymous said…
please try to the last breath for being who you are and don't give up

I will remember it

Your love
XOXO
Vishv said…
Time will heal everything and everyone so don't be tensed and enjoy your life as you wish.
Anonymous said…
Good to hear it became every week from every day....ohh that's what i always believe time is the greatest..or for me the only healer......that what i always believe and always tell everyone never to pretend..believe me sometimes being sad is good else you won't feel happy happier..i think kabhi kabhi kisike liye diwar pe sar mare ke rona is funn😂🤣(👀don't you..I Have Never done that sentencestartedwith "i think")🤣 . Enduring solve things.. Anyway hope you do good with your ✌️Healing✌️.

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